Archive for November, 2004

Welcome to the jungle

November 30th, 2004 at 3:47 pm

The blogosphere is becoming ever more crowded and ever more interesting: my friend Toby has decided to join us, and just started up his own One Life, Take Two. He has rechristened himself Jefferson, because he’s a transplanted southerner, and they like their Jeffersons down there. So out of respect I’ll be changing his name […]

Naming names (a PSA)

November 29th, 2004 at 9:26 am

Some of my more astute readers may have noticed that over the last few days, there has been a subtle but definite change to my name, from Dacia Ray to Audacia Ray. This shift honors my namesake a bit more, while doing something else as well. A ways back, I was contacted by the husband […]

I’m a catty, jealous bitch

November 28th, 2004 at 8:40 pm

Just because I’m in a successful open relationship does not mean that I have banished jealousy from my life. In fact, it seems quite the opposite. When I was in a monogamous relationship (almost 5 years!) I never got jealous of my boyfriend spending time with other girls. I thought it was funny when one […]

My jerk off cave

November 28th, 2004 at 1:24 pm

Last night I had an impromptu dinner and hang out session with my ex, who I’ve known for seven years, dated for almost five, and is a pretty awesome friend all ’round. Though of course he knows that I’m a sex-obsessed perv, he doesn’t know the whole story (the group sex, the whoring, the blog, […]

This consumer’s report: Seasonale

November 27th, 2004 at 2:40 am

I’ve been on various birth control pills for about five years now. I started out on OrthoTricyclen, probably one of the more popular pills because it is low in estrogen (which does not make it any less effective) and can also help to reduce acne. The big side effect it had on me was that […]

Personal dynamics

November 26th, 2004 at 1:53 pm

So, medicine a bit more on Tuesday evening’s adventures… Really, treat I managed to tell most of the good stuff in my post on Wednesday, but as always I’ve been busily thinking away about the dynamic of the evening and the way that everything panned out. With sex parties, as with everything, practice makes perfect. […]


November 24th, 2004 at 5:57 pm

I was the first to arrive at Toby’s, which meant we had time to catch up while scattering candles, condoms and lube in all the right places throughout his apartment. Of course, the next to arrive was my ex Jake with a date in tow. This turned out to be fine – we hugged each […]

Cast of characters

November 23rd, 2004 at 2:48 pm

So as to avoid what tomorrow may be a lot of explaining interrupting a good story, I will do some explaining right now. Tonight, Dirck and I are attending a sex party thrown by my dear friend and former boss, Toby (reportedly he does not like his assigned pseudonym, so there may be some argument […]

Carpal tunnel

November 22nd, 2004 at 3:09 pm

Recently, I’ve been waking up a few times a week with serious pain, stiffness and cramping in my wrists (especially the right one), fingers (especially on the left hand) and soreness in the muscles of both. This morning, I figured out why: excessive and rigorous masturbation. I pieced these things together because after sleeping through […]

So many toys…

November 17th, 2004 at 4:45 pm

So, it finally happened. I have acquired so many sex toys that I can no longer shut the underbed storage container that is my toy box. I guess in the range of problems it’s possible to have, this is not a bad one. But it makes the quick grab for a toy a little more […]