Archive for January, 2005

Thinking about orgies

January 30th, 2005 at 2:47 pm

After my last posts (part 1, online part 2) about Jefferson’s biweekly bisexual orgy, one of my readers asked if I’d write a little somethin’ somethin’ about how I think about orgies, what makes them awesome for me (other than the giving and getting of orgasms), et cetera. I know this sounds ridiculous to people […]

A very happy un-birthday!

January 28th, 2005 at 1:55 am

Today I’m celebrating my six month blogoversary. I just want to take a minute to says thanks to my readers, old and new – you consistently bring amusement and insight into my life. ———————— Also, I wanted to put this out there: Gracie and I have been asked to be part of a roundtable conversation/interview […]

The asses have it

January 27th, 2005 at 2:19 am

I felt slightly ashamed that the ass pic was out of focus, but my ass is big enough to focus on. Have you ever tried to take a sexy pic of your ass while being too lazy to use a tripod? It’s difficult. Yesterday’s poll was inspired by an ongoing conversation I have with Dirck […]

Further intellectual debate

January 26th, 2005 at 11:57 am

I know we’ve been going over a lot of very important issues lately, but it’s time to push those aside and consider one very major issue: if you had to choose between a great set of bazooms and a nice round ass, which would you pick? Please note that this is an either/or situation. The […]

One more time, with feeling

January 25th, 2005 at 2:23 am

I am making this (I think) my last post on Rachel’s article and resulting conversations over at It may jump around a bit, but these are some of my leftover thoughts and scattered ideas. I consider myself someone who is able to see the greater issues of things and is not the overly sensitive […]

Assumed meanings

January 24th, 2005 at 2:19 am

I’ve been spending a lot of time trying to keep caught up with the flurry of comments around Rachel’s article, privilege, sex work, all that jazz. I like nuances (ok, Ms Understatement), which of course means I can talk about this stuff til I’m blue in the face. And then keep talking. In pretty much […]

Boy/girl sex/work

January 23rd, 2005 at 3:59 am

First of all, let me just say that I love me some debate. Over at, there is a post that has garnered a lot of discussion about Rachel Kramer Bussel’s Village Voice piece this week. Jane very eloquently responded to some of the comments and about class and privilege, and of course I have […]

Seduction narratives and dead whores

January 22nd, 2005 at 3:47 am

In my recent post about slut guilt I aimed straight for the fears that people walk around with: in the sex negative, guilt-ridden, judgmental society we live in it is so common for there to be a very short leap in people’s minds from sex to danger. Add commerce to sex and you’ve got a […]

Figure study in red and black

January 20th, 2005 at 2:20 am

Benny emailed me this picture from our shoot this past weekend, a little cock tease of what’s to come…

The black cloud

January 19th, 2005 at 6:14 pm

After Donny’s departure, approved Jefferson couldn’t help but continue to laugh at me and my curse of never seeing boy-on-boy action up close and personal. He said he’d given up on promising me anything, as it looked like the night would again be filled with many girls and perhaps not enough boys, so my black […]