Archive for June, 2005

Mind the gap

June 28th, 2005 at 12:34 am

The passing of another Pride in New York made me think a bit about what a lousy queer I am, approved and furthermore about the ways that gender and sexuality are dichotomized, ask the way things are separated into neat little identities that really aren’t. A bit of perceptiveness (though nothing earthshattering) I’ve always had […]

Audacia on CIUT 89.5 FM’s The Shady Lady

June 26th, 2005 at 8:57 am

6.26.05 $pread editors on The Shady Lady, Toronto’s sex worker radio show On Monday, June 27, from 11 am to noon, I’ll be gabbing away with a fellow $pread editor on Kara Gillies’ sex worker radio show, The Shady Lady. You can listen to the show live on CIUT 89.5 FM’s website.

Ask Audacia Anything 4

June 24th, 2005 at 11:02 pm

Yesterday after I wrote my raw anger post, generic I felt really purged of a lot of that anger. Although I’ve become increasingly emotionally restrained in my blog of late, for a variety of reasons, I felt that it was useful for me and my readers for me to lay my emotions bare around this […]

Damaged goods

June 23rd, 2005 at 11:01 am

After writing my post and telling some of my friends and lovers about what happened on Monday night, buy I was weirdly unsatisfied and angry at the responses. It wasn’t any one response in particular, or any particular combination of words – but I just felt angry at the world. I know everyone means well, […]

Farewell fuck

June 21st, 2005 at 2:47 pm

Staring at my calendar on Sunday afternoon, sick I tried to figure out how to accomplish fine feats of crazy scheduling in the short amount of time I have before I cross the big blue and make mischief in a strange city. As I’m prone to do, side effects I made a list of things […]

Hurtling towards go

June 19th, 2005 at 10:01 pm

In two weeks, I’ll be embarking on a month of intensive graduate study on the topic sexuality and culture at the University of Amsterdam. After my month in Amsterdam, I’ll be meeting James in Paris and then traveling for another three weeks, making this trip the longest stretch of time that I’ve been away from […]

Ask Audacia Anything 3

June 17th, 2005 at 10:13 pm

And – we’re back! It was neither warm nor sunny in New England the last few days – in fact I had to purchase extra warm and fluffy outerwear to combat the fact that it was nearly forty degrees colder in New England than it was in New York. Being the resourceful girls we are, […]

Waking Vixen Reader Poll and I’m Off!

June 13th, 2005 at 11:55 am

Jane and I are taking a lesbian field trip starting tomorrow morning and returning to the city on Thursday. We’re headed to New England to camp, go whale watching and eat lots of seafood dipped in butter. I haven’t been camping in a long time, so I’ll probably light my arm on fire and get […]

Sexual autonomy

June 12th, 2005 at 11:05 pm

After the collapse of my two relationships in March, illness I went through a panicky period of time where I kept thinking to myself that I was doomed: no one would want me and my so-called baggage. I started to believe that I was never going to have sex again outside of Jefferson’s parties and […]

Ask Audacia Anything 2

June 10th, 2005 at 8:22 am

My boyfriend has a foot fetish and I would like to pleasure him with my feet. I am not sure how to do it properly, thumb I have tried but I can not find a comfortable position to do this in. Do you have any suggestions? First of all, pill make sure your feet are […]