Archive for August, 2005

Solo project

August 31st, 2005 at 12:44 pm

During the Q&A period after my talk on Monday, people were really interested in my take on intimate relationships in my own life. Some of the questions were asked kindly and with genuine interest, but some had the pall of judgment and misunderstanding over them. Any way you cut it, I do like answering questions, […]


Your stage fright advice sucks

August 29th, 2005 at 11:07 pm

Earlier today as I chatted with an old friend, I told him about my talk tonight and he asked if I was nervous. “Well, a little,” I admitted. “It’s been a few months since I’ve done any public speaking – and I’ve been very hermity recently so I haven’t really been doing all that much […]


Warts and all

August 28th, 2005 at 11:23 pm

This morning I battled the goddamned weekend subway service armed with five pairs of shoes (the kind with perfectly clean soles that have never ventured into the out-of-doors) and a bunch of outfits to a group shoot in Manhattan. Although there was a little bit of bondage happening at the shoot, it was otherwise devoid […]


In the corner

August 28th, 2005 at 11:40 am

by Bill Wylie, August 2005


Boxing

August 28th, 2005 at 11:32 am

by EMG Studios, August 2005


…but I play one on TV

August 27th, 2005 at 5:35 pm

Yesterday on a train into the city, I ran into an ex-boyfriend’s uncle’s ex-wife and did some quality catching up. I used to see her at Christmases and whatnot, but it’s been at least three years since our paths have crossed. It was good to see her and hear all about what has happened in […]


Bloody cunt, bad aura

August 26th, 2005 at 6:36 pm

I’ve been scheduling a bunch of photo shoots for the coming weeks (yes, this means that I’ll get around to updating my portfolio – actually I have enough material to do that now, but wait til next week when I have a little bit more). I’m starting to veer more towards doing erotic nudes and […]


Hands-on training

August 24th, 2005 at 4:30 pm

I’m a demanding sexual partner on a number of levels. Basically, I’m a bit of a sex snob. Although of course I accept and respect the fact that most people don’t spend as much time thinking about sex (at least, not in a professional capacity) or talking to other people about sex lives as I […]


Dacia at Sexy Spirits

August 23rd, 2005 at 11:58 pm

8.29.05 Dacia at Sexy Spirits On Monday, August 29th at 7.15 pm I’ll be giving a talk entitled “Summer of Love” at Sexy Spirits, 301 W 55 st #4. Come meet me and get some insight into what it was like to straddle the lines of activism, academia, and personal sexual perspective at the Summer […]


Jealousy and secrets

August 22nd, 2005 at 11:35 pm

This weekend I went upstate to visit the family – it’s been a while since all four of us were together at once. My brother and I showed photos of our respective trips to Europe, mom talked about finishing up the revisions on her dissertation, and dad tried to get us all to eat cantaloupe […]