Archive for September, 2005

Sad cock woes (Ask Audacia 6)

September 30th, 2005 at 12:35 pm

Okay, so I’m trying to get back on track with this Ask Audacia business after a long-ass break from it over the summer, as it seems that its something folks are interested in. So, without further ado… I think I am starting to become a bit dysfunctional sexually as I get older. It takes me […]


Sex work semantics

September 29th, 2005 at 12:31 pm

Okay, so I know sometimes (most of the time) I’m vague about what exactly I’m up to in terms of the sex work I have done. It’s a bit of a legal issue, so I know I’m being deliberately obtuse, I’m not trying to be evasive about the whole thing. If you go back a […]


Moving right along

September 27th, 2005 at 12:06 pm

After a lot of careful thought, I think I’m pretty well decided that I’m going to quit being a sex worker in some of the ways that I have been over the past year and change. I’m still going to be modeling (probably more so than before), but I’m going to stop doing private sessions. […]


Time

September 25th, 2005 at 7:41 pm

I’m not really one for memes, but the trip to DC this weekend got me thinking about the marching on of time, so I decided to give this one a whirl. 10 years ago: I had just started the 10th grade, which was one of the toughest of my teen years. I was heavily in […]


Music preferences (Ask Audacia 5)

September 23rd, 2005 at 6:12 am

From the Ask Audacia mailbag: What type of music do you listen to? Any specific artists you could recommend? Do you like different tunes for sex work versus personal “work?” This is a pretty perfect moment to answer this question, since this morning I’m heading to DC to see Q and Not U, one of […]


The company of sexy strangers

September 22nd, 2005 at 1:04 pm

For me (and I suspect for lots of people), there is a fine line between taking care of myself emotionally and becoming a paranoid hermit. This week I realized that the former was becoming an excuse for the latter. Not good. So, what in the world could be a reintroduction to the world of being […]


Outside the box*

September 20th, 2005 at 2:33 am

The number one thing I love about sexuality is its ability to be fluid and ever-changing. Me and my desires, we’re on a life-long journey together. Sometimes I don’t know where I am or where I’m going, but I take comfort in knowing that even if there isn’t a new sex act under the sun, […]


The moon calls cha-ching

September 17th, 2005 at 1:25 pm

A full moon over a weekend? What a perfect opportunity to seriously make bank. I often plan my sex working activities around the full moon, as it’s always the time when people are clamoring for my womanly attentions. I was planning on making the best of the full moon this month, as it’s been since […]


Foucault after midnight

September 14th, 2005 at 4:00 pm

My days are bracketed – begun and ended – with my fingers buried in the sticky slick sweetness of my own vulva. It’s like touching base, coming home. Its not like wishing someone was here with me; its guttural moans for the sake of the vibrations in my throat and chest, writhing on my sheets, […]


To the moon

September 12th, 2005 at 11:26 pm

In a recent correspondence with a reader about where I’m at and what I’m up to, he commented: In my opinion, the silent pink elephant in your blog has always been, and continues to be the question: “where are you going?” That IS the question isn’t it? But really, where are we all going? Ok, […]