Archive for October, 2005

Dacia on Derek and Romaine

October 31st, 2005 at 4:34 pm

11.02.05 – 8.15 pm Dacia on Derek and Romaine On Wednesday, November 2 at 8.15 EST I’ll be getting interviewed by Derek and Romaine (if you click the link you’ll be able to figure out how to listen free on the internet) about $pread magazine, smut, and my life in general.


Attention hog

October 28th, 2005 at 11:15 pm

“Do you like the attention?” A number of people have asked me this recently, with regards to the ever-growing public nature of my (ahem) personal properties, my choice to model in the buff and show the pink. Why do I feel, in some ways, ashamed to say: yes. I do. Attention, and the desire for […]


Better than a whirlwind

October 27th, 2005 at 3:51 pm

Yesterday was a good day, one of my favorite kinds of days to have (and no, I didn’t have hot monkey sex, though that would’ve made it ever more perfect). It included many a titillating moment – interview with a stripper, corset wearing, three girl photo shoot, porn site launch party – but also felt […]


Good things and stuff

October 23rd, 2005 at 4:07 pm

I have a little bit of an administrative update here… plenty of exciting stuff, if I do say so myself. First of all, if you’re in New York this week, you should make your way to the Lucky Cat in Williamsburg [245 Grand St, b/t Driggs and Roebling, take the L to Bedford Ave] on […]


Regular people

October 21st, 2005 at 2:07 pm

Ah, the girl next door, that archetype of porn. It’s the timeless look – kind of ironic, because it’s a look very much tied to youthful exuberance and naïvete. It’s a look that sells – the look that seemingly every porn producer is seeking. It’s the thought that sluts are everywhere, even right next door […]


Open

October 19th, 2005 at 12:12 pm

He says, “You can say anything you want to me. Ask me, and I’ll do anything you want.” He means: sex, life, bullshit, everything. Given carte blanche, my dreams freeze. This is what I want/ed, why is my tongue all a-tangle? It is, partly, that I struggle to give voice to my desires – I […]


All sex drives aren’t created equal (Ask Audacia 7)

October 17th, 2005 at 2:24 pm

Hi Dacia, I am writing to see what you would say to me about my wife. The problem is she is not as interested in sex as I am. I want to try new things in new places with some new people possibly and she is just a stick in the mud. It took and […]


Everything You Know…

October 15th, 2005 at 10:40 am

10.15.05 Everything You Know About Sex is Wrong Out now from Disinformation Press is the new mondo-anthology Everything You Know About Sex Is Wrong. I have a piece in it called “My First Fetish or How I Fought Mediocrity.”


Porn and liberation

October 14th, 2005 at 1:05 am

I started to write a response in the comments section of my last post to a commenter saying I don’t believe you can sugar coat porn with a new name or description. You can call it erotica or alternative whatever, but the material serves the same purpose, which is to get people aroused. Stimulating the […]


Pushing the limits

October 11th, 2005 at 2:34 pm

Sometimes I think I’ve fallen out of love with porn, and I especially feel squicky about the porn industry, but today I was reminded why I care, why I love that dirty beast that causes so much controversy and strife in the world and between and amongst the sexes. From an interview on bmezine with […]