Archive for November, 2005

Foot love

November 30th, 2005 at 1:42 am

It occurred to me recently that I’ve never really written about my love for toes, order shoes, stockings and all things leg and foot. Sure, I’ve written about the professional foot sessions here and there, and I’ve mentioned foot play in some of my sex posts, but I’ve never really composed an ode to feet. […]

Interviews: almost as good as a post

November 22nd, 2005 at 7:14 pm

Kirby, of the very excellent and hilarious Goodie Bag TV, did an interview with me this week which he’s got up on his blog, with a slightly silly picture of me from one of my sets. The interview includes such bits as this: Waking Vixen seems like it was an emotional necessity for you. […]

Feminism is…

November 21st, 2005 at 3:15 am

1.Belief in the social, sale political, health and economic equality of the sexes. 2.The movement organized around this belief. That is, approved according to On the personal level (because after all, the personal is political), I’d say that feminism is the freedom for women (primarily, but men as well) to make uncoerced choices about […]

Outside the new monogamy (looking in?)

November 18th, 2005 at 2:56 am

You may have read a bit about the hullabaloo around New York magazine’s sex issue, with the skinny nekkid white folks on the cover and the articles about the sex. There’s a piece in the issue called “The New Monogamy” by perennial favorites and ex-Nervers Em and Lo that I read with interest. The article […]


November 17th, 2005 at 2:19 am

I just sat down and counted my posts this month: six. Dang. I’ve never posted so little. In many ways (The Ways of the Blog) that is distinctly not awesome. But in other ways (The Ways of Life) it’s kinda ok, buy more about if not lipsmacking rad. You see kids, pills relationships (romantic and […]

Reading at MoSex, December 1

November 14th, 2005 at 11:13 pm

12.01.05 – 7-9 pm Everything You Know About Sex is Wrong reading at the Museum of Sex Everything You Know About Sex is Wrong Lecture/Reading/Q&A 90 Minute Lecture/Reading with 30 minute Q&A afterwards. Come celebrate the release of Disinformation’s new book. I’ll be reading my piece “My First Fetish, or How I Fought Mediocrity.” At […]

Sex, politics, religion

November 14th, 2005 at 4:02 pm

These are things you’re not supposed to talk about in polite company, and of course the things that I use to jump start any lack luster conversation, because I’m no good in polite company. Although in many ways my life is firmly located in the province of radical politics (this would be a philosophical space, […]

Advanced notice

November 11th, 2005 at 9:19 am

***Safer Sex for Sluts is tonight at 7 pm!** I’m sorry that folks didn’t know about the $pread fashion show until too late – but please be sure to check out the News sidebar over to the right, where I posted info on the $pread event a week ago. That said, as a bit of […]


November 10th, 2005 at 1:22 pm

My brain, visit web my heart and my emotions have spiraled in and out of control about a thousand times in the past week – not all good, prostate not all bad, just there. I spent the first half of last week stressing over an essay for an anthology and then a paper for school, […]

$pread mag’s Sex Worker Fashion Show

November 7th, 2005 at 10:21 am

Tonight, $pread co-hosts Smut’s weekly performance series to bring you a live Sex Workers’ Fashion Show – and belatedly celebrate the launch of Issue 3! – at Galapagos Artspace, Brooklyn. Featuring the best of escortwear, stripper gowns and lingerie, plus fetish and bondage wear. Outfits and designs provided by Bella Vendetta, The Pleasure Chest, and […]