Archive for May, 2006

Debauchery on the horizon

May 30th, 2006 at 8:34 pm

This Thursday is the 13th annual Black and Blue Ball, which takes place at the Avalon (47 West 20th Street at 6th ave), and I’ll be there, taking part in the fetish fashion show. I’m going to be wearing a ceramic corset, made by Oklahoma-based artist Nicole Moan, whose pieces I featured in my Style […]


Burn out

May 29th, 2006 at 9:46 pm

I think I knew I was burned out this past week when people kept wishing me a happy three day holiday weekend, and I could only laugh. For me, this so-called “three day weekend” meant more time to throw myself at my writing, more big long chunks of time that I could spend in front […]


Style and substance

May 25th, 2006 at 11:18 pm

Coming back to New York after being away always pulls at my heartstrings something mean. Tonight, descending in on the city I smiled down at the Belmont track, Prospect Park, Madison Square Garden, Yankee Stadium, abstract as they are from the ground, they are perfect shapes from a vantage point in the sky. One of […]


5 Questions: Tony Comstock, part 1

May 22nd, 2006 at 7:51 pm

A while ago I decided to start doing 5 question interviews, but I didn’t promise any regularity, and its a good thing, because I am both busy and scatter brained. Anyway, here’s one I did with the ever-awesome Tony Comstock – well, the first of the five questions. The man can go on (not at […]


C is for community

May 20th, 2006 at 10:31 pm

Sometimes I do so much writing and working that basically stems from and is connected to the blogging I do that I forget that I haven’t actually been blogging. Like the last week and change. Also, I’ve been doing this weird thing, I think it’s called socializing, like almost every day. It’s pretty sweet. Anyway, […]


The economics of prostitution and marriage

May 10th, 2006 at 1:18 am

You know, I was going to try and go to bed at a reasonable hour tonight, skip out on doing some writing, and head straight for my toy box and my porn “research,” but then I was clicking my way through my daily blogstops, and I saw this article that Violet Blue linked to on […]


Brains vs Body

May 7th, 2006 at 10:03 am

I have plenty of excuses for why I’ve been living in my head a lot recently, most of them have to do with curating an art show and writing 50 pages of academic-ese in two weeks. Hell, those aren’t even “excuses” – those are damn good reasons. Link those requirements for intellectual focus and vigor […]


Out in Brooklyn

May 6th, 2006 at 12:18 pm

A (good) day in the life

May 6th, 2006 at 10:22 am

And Dacia – what, pray tell, are you doing on this fine Saturday? Well, I’m wrestling a girl in green slime. I’m doing another shoot before that, which I’m not going to give away before I’ve got something to show for myself. For now you’ll have to be satisfied with this:


Teen angst, pathos and humor

May 5th, 2006 at 1:36 am

So what’s the first thing I do after finishing a grueling stretch of term paper writing? (I mean, after the sleep, profuse masturbation and hanging out with friends). I READ. Yes, I am an incurable nerd. After finishing a semester, I crave the reading I’ve been missing out on. I feel guilty about the great […]