Naked on the Internet
Naked on the Internet – interviewing women for my book I’m in the process of writing a book about female sexuality and the internet, including chapters on dating/hooking up; sex blogging; sex worker advertising and networking; wives and girlfriends of partners who indulge in sexual activities online; sexual health and online support communities; and technology [...]
Debunking bad porno
Now, I’m not exactly an authority (seriously, kids, stop sending those emails – I won’t be much use reviewing your script or giving you advice on your movie), but I’ve learned a lot of shit about porno over the past few months. I’m not gonna act like a big know-it-all, but there are lots of [...]
The unveiling of the next big project…
Yesterday, I finalized the contract for my first book. After getting this news from my lawyer and writing my Fleshbot posts for the day, I promptly blew off all other responsibilities and proceeded to imbibe in food, booze, and boinking until 7 am this morning. Dude. Ow. Totally worth it. Towards the later part of [...]
$pread gets an office
Erin painting our office door The finished product. Heh heh.
Fun in the land of editing
The end is in sight – the end of editing “The Bi Apple,” that is. Well, at least the first round of it. Today was a long day of editing the trailer and the behind the scenes footage, with lots of good moments. Its funny how mundane this stuff becomes after a while, so that [...]
The latest clusterfuck*
*Not the awesome kind. In the middle, you will please note my mostly-dead laptop, and to its left, the monitor that gives it (sorta/limping) life. On the right is my new MacBook, sooo sexy, but also the bane of the existence of my bank account. I have spent the last few days tangled up with [...]
Watching me
When I got my package of DVDs from Benny Profane on Tuesday, I checked out the covers, got cracking on my Fleshbot post on Psychocandy 4, and promptly didn’t watch the DVD. It made me nervous. Yes, I’ve seen myself doing it moving-image style in, er, private home movies, but it was weird thinking about [...]
Psychocandy 4 out now!
Remember nearly two years ago when I flew to Los Angeles for a weekend to pay a visit to the Pirate Booty household, fuck Benny Profane and make porno? Maybe this, this and this will refresh your memory. Well: Ta da! In honor of such a rare occasion on which you can watch me do [...]
This is my brain on jizz-isms
I really like thinking up euphemisms for jism. I would probably like this less if I had spent any amount of time as a porno copy writer, like certain other people. But since I haven’t, I feel (relatively) un-jaded about this particular sliver of the adult industry. Just – let me have my fun, ok? [...]
Media bits!
Its time for some fun media stuff… because I’m all over the goddamn place, little media whore that I am. First up, a wee mention of my movie in Rachel Kramer Bussel’s Village Voice column this week. Reading that first line made me laugh and remember, yeah I did say that – and many other [...]

