Media, strength and vulnerability
This is a quickie, because I don’t entirely know what to say. This past Friday, a friend of $pread’s was shot and killed in Oaxaca, Mexico. His name is Brad Will, and he worked for New York Indymedia, with whom $pread shares office space, as well as our art director/photographer Erin Siegal, who was arrested [...]
Looking the part
At CineKink this past weekend, I was standing with a colleague when a filmmaker introduced himself to us. When the filmmaker got distracted by another conversation my colleague leaned in and said, “Wow, he really doesn’t look the part of pornographer.†I looked at myself and at him and said, “Do we?†We don’t really, [...]
Community in the dark
I spent some hours of the last lump of days sitting in uncomfortable (er, I mean, vintage) seats at the Anthology Film Archives, watching dirty movies. It was a pretty incredible thing – LIsa Vandever put together a diverse and interesting mix of films from all ends fo teh sexual spectrum, which was refreshing to [...]
Study in red
by Logan Grendel/Niesha Studio
Stripper sues, columnist mocks
I get a lot of news feeds and sex-related Google alerts everyday, because – dude, its my job(s). I monitor goings-on for potential Fleshbot posts and I also look for stuff for upcoming Global News Shorts in $pread. Most of the time, I skim stuff to see what it might be relevant for, and that’s [...]
CineKink kicks off, and everything is a blur
Wha? Everything is feeling kind of insane these days, some good stuff, some very very bad. But, I soldier on. I used to be able to at least blog quickly enough that I knew what the hell was going on from week to week, but these days have been so consumed by… stuff… that it’s [...]
Tradition, caretaking and feminism
I’ve been thinking a lot about tradition recently, because as much as I’ve eschewed tradition at every turn in my life, I think I’m becoming something of an old softy, and some traditions now make me misty-eyed instead of irrationally angry. When I was younger, I thought it was really lame and unfeminist to follow [...]
“The State of Smut: NYC” – my panel at CineKink 10/21
****I’ll be showing the trailer for my movie “The Bi Apple” for the first time at this event!!!**** NEW YORK, NY; Oct. 12, 2006 – The film festival CineKink NYC will host a special panel, “The State of Smut: NYC,” on Saturday, October 21 at 4:30 pm. (Anthology Film Archives, 32 Second Avenue, NYC; $9/$8 [...]
Women
I am writing a book about women – Seal is, after all, a women’s and feminist press. It kinda brings me back to my first class on feminism in college, in which we considered the question “what is a woman?” I’ve been working on my own internalized assumptions and trying to second guess myself, and [...]

