Damn, last week I was awesome with updating Waking Vixen, but now all of a sudden I suck again. I have been blogging and hanging out online though, I swear! It’s just been slightly intermittent, because this past weekend I went to Florida for my grandparent’s 70th anniversary (seriously), Monday night I gave a talk at Brooklyn College, and Tuesday I went to DC and back and gave a talk at the Woodhull Freedom Foundation.
Anyway, here’s a dose of bloggy goodness from sexuality news blog I do for my job, called Peeq Speak. There’s even a cute banner for it, behold:

Anyway, here are two posts from Peeq Speak, with video fun:
A little porn parody fun: “scandal” about the N-word in porn
I’m a total sucker for parodies of the porn industry when they’re done in a smart way – meaning that my ears perk up for anything done by The Onion or the Daily Show.
In this really terrific fake news piece, The Onion alerts us to a breaking scandal around a white female porn performer, Jennica Fox, calling her black male scene partner the N word in an interracial scene. Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock, you know that the use of racial epithets in interracial porn is the lifeblood of that genre. For an example, check out the controversy around Shane Diesel and his company Blackzilla – he’s actually changed the name of several of his websites because of people freaking out about his use of the N word.
Use Of ‘N-Word’ May End Porn Star’s Career
It’s that time of year again: sexy Halloween
Yes, it’s true, I’ve worked in the sex industry for six years and I’ve seen pretty much everything – and I’m pretty jaded about it all. However, there are some things that really chap my hide. One of them is the sexy Halloween costume trend of the past bunch of years. I love Halloween (it is, after all, Goth Christmas), but come on folks, does every ladies’ outfit have to be sexy? I think people just need to be sexier in their everyday lives instead of storing it up for Halloween.
This year, I think I’ll be a prudish pirate.


11:05 pm
I liked the part where it’s sexy..sexy…and frog.
My favorite halloween costume was a person who wore all grey and carried a spray bottle. When asked what she was she would spray people and say “partly cloudy with a chance of rain”.
9:47 pm
One year for halloween I was Maleficent from Sleeping Beauty…complete with green face, horns, 8 yards of fabric into a cape, and floor length dress. I ended up at a party with bunnies, fairies, angels, devils, you name it. No one got it. I’m like come on, Disney VILLAIN.
People just don’t understand the classics anymore.
I don’t even have anywhere to go for halloween this year, and it’s my favorite holiday :( Enjoy your prudish pirate-ness!
1:04 am
I don’t see the point, maybe she was role acting as a southern girl trying to get her daddy po’d by fucking a (ni–er), racial slur, in that time that’s what the white girls who fucked black men called them.